- Remove Excess Hair (Shave every other day, trim beard weekly, remove excess hair from ears every two weeks) - Join a Gym (28 straight weeks of weight lifting. Home HIIT to start next week) - Make sure your clothes fit (Many clothing items from my old lifestyle have been purged) - Change your hairstyle (I get my hair cropped very short about every month)
Mission 2: Completed. - I have invested time and money at men's clothing stores refurbishing my wardrobe. I have four pairs of nice jeans, three pairs of dress shoes, two blazers, one car coat, three belts, and very nice socks. I'm planning my summer wardrobe now. I have received MANY compliments on my new dress style. It is very attractive and it leaves an imprint on the memories of the women I meet.
Mission 3: Completed. - Posture and Wall-stance exercise completed.
Mission 4: In Progress - I do not have any plans that will require me to dress up. This will likely happen next week.
Sandi, I am slowly getting clearer about how to take things slow. You describing going slow especially in light of how I courted my WW is always at the forefront of my thinking. I still do not know what this woman I am trying to date is thinking, but I know that I need to give her the space she needs to think. I have no idea how it is going to turn out and I am not going to try to force her to like me. That being said, I still feel that she is attracted to me and that she is just approaching me very slowly. I am ok with her taking time to text me back. It just means that I will be ok if she stops contacting me. When/if she does get back is just a bonus.
I will call on Sunday to ask if she can meet me on one of the days I suggested next week. I keep thinking that I can use iMessage's voice text function, but I don't think that really counts (You can record your message and send it over the messaging application. The recipient would hit the "Play" button and they can hear what I recorded.)
I am getting antsy for next Friday's social event. I want to continue this process with other women. I am trying to force myself to not put all of my eggs in one basket. Yes, I am very attracted to her and I feel the same from her. But I know that I cannot gamble on possibilities. It's been hard, but I am talking myself down to reality constantly.
Also, the chatting has cooled considerably since our date. I don't think it's a lack of interest. I think we're just giving each other space to handle our life crap.
