I've talked to xW a bit about her dating life only in the context of our kids to make sure they are safe. I am confident that she wouldn't let anyone that could bring harm to our kids anywhere near her, so that hasn't been an issue.
Hopefully your legal issues can speed along and you can move on to the next phase of your life. It's scary yet exciting.
Married 9: Together 11 M:37 W:35 S:2 D:7 Bomb dropped 6/3/2017 W moved out 7/1/2017 Separation Filed: 8/1/2017 Modified to Divorce: 8/21/2017 Divorced: 10/5/2017