To those that are okay with dating a separated person, how would you feel about a person that dated your spouse while the two of you were separated (either physically, or in home)?
From my experience, extremely painful at first. But as time passed, it subsided bit by bit with a few spikes in between. Finally, I finally accepted the situation as it is and told myself that I am going to move on. I am not going to wait for her anymore. I love me too much to continue putting myself through this pain and false hope.
And at this point, I don't care what my WS thinks. She made her choices. Now I am making mine.
