Actually I am a bit confused as to why this was even sent out. I had at one time requested to come with me for sexual therapy. I had visited various sex therapists and although nothing was wrong i even took medications. I feel for a proper sexual relationship to occur the vibe and affection has to be from both sides. Both of us need to sacrifice be patient, listen to each other and address one other's concern. This email from her raises a lot of more questions than answers - clearly pointing out that this person doesnt have the patience or the moral values in case the partner falls ill. She will just leave him to die rather than working to find a solution.
Thanks Steve85.. What do you think of my above quote? Are marraiges only defined by sexual satisfaction. I am sure at one point of time both parties wont be interested in sex but rather the warmth and care from each other. But again i guess it varies from person to person. This was seriously i feel an unwarranted email after such a long time.
Nutcrac, when everything is okay with a relationship, and there is a connection and good sex life then sex is only about 10% of the focus of that relationship. When things go south and there are sexual problems, it becomes 90% of the focus of that relationship. Not sure if that answers your question directly or not, but what I can tell you is that my W had sexual issues for a big part of our marriage, and I stuck by her and supported her. Things remained pretty good. But then I got impatient and pressured her and made it worse. I have no doubt your W did that and it exasperated the issue for you. So yes, you are right. Relationships are more than just sexual satisfaction, but the lack of sexual satisfaction in a marriage is something that needs attention.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
