wolfman, yes her not wanting to go right back to mediation is a good sign. You are right in your analysis that her not wanting to go back next week shows she isn't as gungho to separate and D as possible. However I agree with R2C that you should not be looking at a gauge on her like a thermometer.
Take note of things, but do not put expectations or too much hope on them. Right now she is outside of the MR. Could she come back, sure. Is she moving back based on sitting next to you at dinner? Leaving her bedroom door open? Not running back to mediation next week? WAY to early to tell.
Wolfman, none of this matters. What matters is what you are doing. What did you do for GAL yesterday? I see you attached and reattaching based on "signs". How is your detachment and self-differentiation coming along? Are you working on your 180s, not just to make them, but to make them permanent?
Stop focusing on your W, she can feel that. You are watching every move, every emotion, every facial expression, and every tick that she makes. That is pressure. You want to remove all pressure. ALL PRESSURE. Every time you look for responses, reactions, and emotions in her she feels like an animal at the zoo. And that will push her away.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
