Walk Away Spouse after 6 yrs - Part 3(Last&Final)

[Nutcrac]

Well she has worded it in a diplomatic way. She says she honestly doesnt know if it was an issue that she caused that resulted in my impotence or if i was the reason.

From my perpective, it was both sides. She used to be moody pretty much all day. She shut me down emotionally, i lost physical attraction and we ended up as friends. She even lost trust in me and started verbal abuse calling me impotent and gay which caused more distance and issues. We both lost faith in this relationship with the result of her divorcing me in the end. I was against divorce until the last minute.

Anyways i feel issue has happened over both sides. At least I know my mistakes. I had even offered her to work together to fix it based on a sex therapist advice which she clearly refused saying she has no interest in working to fix this and wants a divorce. She had put on quite a lot of weight and i offered her to go together to gym( i used to go regularly). She vehemently refused. What else was i supposed to do? The only way for her to move on is to figure out her side of mistakes and understand which may take time. I am not here to give advice to her on that. Its upto her to figure out her issues and find the prince charming she wants in her life.

We had a very pious relationship. Except for the sex issue i did everything from my end possible single handedly to save this relationship. She simply threw it away. It always requires two sides to make it work.