30 push-ups and 30 butterfly sit-ups while I was out grilling dinner tonight
Good! If you want to mix it up a little try "hand release" pushups. You lower yourself all the way down, lift your hands off the ground a little and then press back up again. More taxing than regular pushups.
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“She has every right to move out of the current residence. But until there is a Court Order in place, she has no superior right to have the boys than you do....You can agree to the schedule she is proposing on a trial basis if she moves out. You just don’t agree to the overly comprehensive agreement she presented you with.”
Great, next time she threatens it you might let her know you talked to your L and that she has no right to take them. I think she would be less inclined to follow through if she knows you already have a L and have researched it.
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I won’t tell her this (unless she already knows but is playing dumb / ignorant), but L told me that in the D process, assets / obligations all get split as CA is community property. That also includes her federal pension and her retirement account—the one that is twice the size of mine.
Well, unless she already had that account before you were married. Technically only what she has paid in and earned in interest AFTER the M is subject to 50-50 split. If she started the account after M then yes, it's all subject to splitting, but if she had it before, then it can get pretty complicated trying to sort out what part of it gets split. My ex and I both had 401K's before M and we didn't even try to figure it out because it would have been very difficult. We had it written into the D decree that we would both keep our separate 401k's.
