makes sense what Job said
he probably can only handle small doses of reality
and very small /tiny doses of self reflection

living in denial and running from one addiction to another-
stuffing feelings ect
takes its toll

I think it is good that he shows some signs of improvement
and it still may be years until he can recover from all the damage

I wonder if these Mlcers never get support or some kind of therapy-
what are their chances of recovering on their own?
Job do you know if they can recover with no therapy or help?

keep expectations lower than low-


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow