Lost, I know you're spinning right now and confused and probably pretty scared, just try not to freak out too bad because in this state you can do far more harm than good. You've got to leave him alone. I know your instincts are to pursue and beg and plead and throw yourself at his feet but please don't! It may seem like things are happening fast but you've got a long, long road ahead. Take a deep breathe and settle down, you have the gift of time.
Originally Posted by Lost808
I deactivated my Facebook account because I just didn't want to deal with hurt I might feel looking at my H account. Well, just logged back in today
You're taking too short term of a view of this. "Let me change this for a day or two and see what impact it has on him." This is a marathon, please accept you have probably a year or more of long, hard work ahead before you even begin to see a change in him. And please prepare yourself, because the more attached you are to him the more hurt and pain you will go through in these coming months.
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saw he removed his relationship status. I know it doesn't even matter.
I know that hurts and I'm sorry you're going through this! But this is pretty typical stuff for a WAS.
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Then last year they accuse him of stealing 50,000 and sell the company out from under him.
Is their some truth to this? Don't take your H's word for it that there's not. His own mom groomed him to take over the company and then basically fired him, that points to your H having done something very nefarious. And now he's doing this to you, seems to be a pattern there.
