At least the home appraisal is out of the way. One major item out of the way.
As for the baby shower, I know you felt embarrassed, but they understand and you'll make good on it when funds are more available to you.
As for no substance to your posting....you were expressing yourself and that's what is important. You need someone to talk to and we are here for that. Never, ever think your postings don't have substance.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
