He’s a bit older than me, looks a lot younger than he is (like me), seems very nice and is a professor at a US university that is the closest to where i live.
Are you basing that on pics from his dating site profile? Back when I was actively dating I heard so many stories about guys using very old photos or outright fake photos and looking completely different in person. I can't imagine anyone thinking that's a good idea (do you really want to start a new relationship out with lies and deception?) but nevertheless it's very common.
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Can I ask the guys out there a question?? What is with the full-bearded look these days? Honestly...the Grizzly Adams look is just not good, IMO.
Haha! It's just the popular style right now. I've only grown a beard once in my life and it was for a Halloween costume (I was Hook and my GF was Emma). It drove me crazy, even though it was a closely trimmed beard I just didn't like having something on my face all the time like that, LOL! And truth by told, a lot of the guys I know that grow them flat-out do it because they think they are ugly and they're trying to hide it.
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Got my separation agreement emailed to me yesterday. One more round of negotiations and it should pretty much be a done deal. Went through it with my sister as I didn’t want to read it alone. Still cannnot believe we got to this point without any attempts to save the marriage but it is what it is and he is who he is.
There is very little about what we all went through or are going through that isn't baffling. Look at how many years it's been for me and I still scratch my head over why it all went down. You will be able to look back at it without feeling hurt, angry, sad and such. It takes a while but you do eventually find peace with it. You'll still look back and think "WTF" though, I don't think that ever goes away!
