Holy cow! It's Tad...

[tadpole1025]

Thanks AndrewP and Exquisitetobe.

they don't want to be a bad person and they want acceptance for what they've done

I totally agree. Everything has always been about appearances with XW. She wanted everyone to believe that "we just decided to get a divorce." She didn't want to be perceived as the bad guy. When all of this was going on, she even asked if I thought she was a bad person. Like I said, it's all about appearances.

It makes me see him with disgust.

Yep. I get disgusted every time I see XW. It is a shame really. I used to love her more than anything and would do anything for her....Now, she disgusts me. Again, sad.

Tad