typical WW on my hands (part II)

[Ready2Change]

But the question is larger here.... Does one want to remove shared financial *before* anything is filed? Obviously, this would more than likely piss off the spouse

Do not worry about how she will respond. Do what is right.

I would get your money going into your own account. You can then transfer funds into joint account to cover family expenses. Request that she do the same.


H:"W, I have setup my own account. I believe it is best if we each deposit $x.xx weekly into joint account to cover our normal expenses."

If your incomes are drastically different, split by %. 'W Since I make 2X as much you, I believe it is fair for me to cover 2/3 of the normal monthly expenses."