Dealing with a WW and getting through divorce 6

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Thanks neffer. I am keeping up the BD. Still NC unless she initiates with a question or with the kids. We talk a bit but its never very long.

A few days ago she was texting like mad about the settlement. Essentially arguing with me. I finally had to tell her that I would not respond anymore and would not be negotiating in text.

The last back and forth we had several days ago ended with her asking why I wouldn't remain living in our home. I told her I wasn't happy living there. WW then asked me if I was seeing someone. I told her that was none of her business. She responded with "Ok ST".

Since then she has been a bit more distant. WW had started to get comfortable again and started being almost flirty and being around me more. Since that last text she is again avoiding and up in her room. I have not reacted to any temp checks at all.

D19 was over the house the other night and was talking to me about my weight loss. D19 told me that I look really good and that she is very proud of me. D19 asked me how I am maintaining and meeting goals and I responded saying that I only eat when I am hungry and only eat until I am not hungry anymore.

WW is super bitter that I am killing it with the weight loss and that I look absolutely fantastic. I have no vanity issues, but I am very proud of myself and I actually do consider myself to be an extremely good looking man.

My wife heard me say that and said "well it only took you 38 years to figure it out".

I responded with "No, I knew how to do it, I am just motivated now" and I said "I am in my prime right now"

WW responded with "well good for you" and I said "its absolutely wonderful".

Same thing about me going to Hot Yoga. I signed up with my friends class because I will not go with my WW as I don't like her friends she made at her class. These are friends that she bragged to about cheating on me and they supported her decision to destroy our family. Therefore, I will have nothing to do with them and I will not contribute to the business.

WW told me "I have been asking you to go with me to yoga the entire past year". Yes, she has even asked me to go with her after BD and I have declined.

I believe that WW can see that my decision to drop the rope like a bad habit is not going to change. All I have heard from her is "sorry". But I have seen no action at all to repair our relationship or that she cares about me at all. Even if she did come begging for me not to leave or D I wouldn't waiver because her actions show otherwise. WW had a very small window where she could have stopped what she was doing and recommitted back to me and she just treated me like trash.