Here's me freaking: -If she wants to work on the M, why doesn't it look like she is from my end??? -Why is she still so cold?? -My mind fears she is just biding her time to WAW again once my oldest goes to college in the fall -How do I gain more connective experiences without seeming desperate? -Do I continue to ask her to do things? Do I continue to say ILY? -Do I pull away a little and give her space? Let her come to me? -It's so hard to remain upbeat and continue with good listening when she seems cold and not interested in pushing ahead -IT FEELS LIKE I AM JUST WAITING FOR HER TO MAKE UP HER MIND!!! -It feels like she has all the control
Again, I think as Miler has relaxed pressure she has opened up. I am afraid of him embracing that too quickly. Should he have texted back ILY2? I think so. But he should still hold off on pressure and pursuit until he is more sure she is back.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
