Yet she is being distant and cold herself. Yes she has started to come around since he started DBing, but is that just to reattach him? I think that is still up in the air. I think he should keep DBing until he is sure she 100% committed back to the MR.
But I agree he needs to be careful to do loving detachment (self-differentiation) and not letting it slip into cold ignoring. But I think the pursuit-distance dynamic is full effect here.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018