shaking in anger.... I just want to tell her to go take a flying leap.
"I understand you feel that way" "I am sorry you feel that way" "It must be hard to feel that way" "I can't change the past"
I have been there. I channel that anger into positive actions.
Email is my communication channel with My X. That was my boundary.
One example:
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Hi Xwife,
You brought up some good parenting points during our discussion of the exchange times.
You state that you tried to have a decent conversation with me. If a decent parenting conversation is your true intention, I am all willing to participate. Anytime you want a face to face conversation with me, set up a time with our family therapist and I will gladly meet to discuss parenting issues with you. I look forward to the day you step up and start co-parenting. Until then, please comply with the divorce agreement and keep our parenting conversations in Email.
I did speak with the kids and you are very mistaken about their desire to spend alone time with each of us during the other parents parenting time. They all have a deep desire for this. Ask them and listen to them if you need clarification. If you want a professionals opinion about the importance of this, speak with the kids therapist.
Your continually vague accusations of lying intrigue me. Want to share specifics? I am all ears.
I hope you enjoy the kids during the spring break vacation.
Best regards,
R2C
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
