I sent a post before reading the recent updates, then afterwards, I deleted it. I'm confused about this entire emailing situation with OM. Are you saying she never told OM the A was a horrible mistake, that she still loved her H and wanted to save her M? And if she hasn't, why not?

You aren't suppose to constantly watch her phone/email activity.

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She wanted to go away somewhere this weekend with me overnight and we made plans, she is trying right? or is this just being more covert?


If she has been temp checking you hard, after the email stuff........then I'd say it is a red flag. I don't see spending an overnight with her H as "trying" when it immediately follows some questionable emails that were discovered.

It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!