Clinging to Hope

[Ready2Change]

I'm struggling today. Hoping to hear some success stories of people who's spouse had filed and then managed to do LRT or something. I know so many things I did wrong and that I need to work on, time is not on my side. Add to that my job seems to be trying to manage me out and everything is really scary right now I love him so much and just want him to give me the patience to be the spouse he deserves.

HI girl,

I am a success story even though I did not save my marriage. I saved me. I saved my relationship with my children. That is success in my eyes.

Time is really on your side. You might now see it now.

I have seen many here turn their wayward spouse around. They did this by changing their focus from the spouse to themselves. They stop trying to control the other person and focus on the one thing they can control. Themselves and the way the interact with their spouse.

Did you read Livings thread? She got her H to at lease stop. She has not posted in awhile, but I believe she has a good chance.


I wish you well. HUGS