because she won’t see we had a great marriage. There was no infidelity, abuse, drugs, alcohol or gambling.
Flip this around. Look through "her eyes": "He doesn't see that we had a bad marriage. There was no connection, no romance, he doesn't listen to me, he just wants to argue and control me." (Or whatever issues she has)
List out things like this. Then figure out your 180s.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
