You're right about one thing, you can't stop her. So don't try. Focus on you and let her deal with her stuff and do what she is going to do. She'll either come around or she won't, but you'll be happy, healthy and fulfilled. That is what DBing is all about.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018