Hi FS. I agree with Ovrrnbw. I do think your H is trying to connect but without commitment. I feel for you. You have been in this annoying limbo for awhile now. He seems to give you just enough to keep hope alive so that you won’t truly move on. Maybe you are getting closer to where you are dropping the rope in order to truly save yourself? Maybe that would be the push he needs to wake up, IDK. Only you can figure that out. I admire your strength. I think if I were you, I would have tried to have an R talk by now but I’ve never really been a patient person when it comes to affairs of the heart. Anyway...I am confident you will figure out what to do and when to do it. In the meantime...status quo. (((HUGS)))