Originally Posted by LH19
Originally Posted by Bo562
She told me that there is a small chance she may have a work thing on Sunday night.

Is this common?


Background: W has training as an EMT, and she uses that in her current job as a so-called ‘collateral duty’ (a collateral duty is something extra that employees of her agency can take on—it’s like a volunteer capacity in other jobs). So, her collateral duty is as an EMT / medic for agent fitness tests, or agent operations.

If I understood her correctly last night, Sunday something is ‘going down’ with a target—and so she *may* be needed to help in her EMT capacity. She said there is a very small chance, but she’s putting it on my radar.

Back to the original question: Is this common? Often enough, yes: a good number of things come up for job where she is needed in varying capacities, not to mention her taking work trips for trainings.

This was a source of friction / resentment on my part earlier in her job and in our MR; however, over the last couple of years I’ve more come to peace or acceptance with it.


M: 36
W: 30
T: 9
M: 7

S6 (OS)
S7mo (YS)

ILYBINILWY BD: Feb. ‘18

W Wants S / D BD: 1/4/19

H / W still in-house

D papers from W: 3/14/19