Anthony, I don't know if the threesome is considered infidelity. But I bet my butt that you wish you could take it back right about now, am I right?
What's more important, that temporary gratification, or a life full of memories with a partner who has also forsaken all others? It's hard to think logically when emotion is overcoming you, and I think that's what happened. What are you doing to make a 180 in your life in this regard? The answer to this question will help you here:
Originally Posted by AnthonyA
Also, I do not want a divorce. I want to reconcile and piece this relationship. I understand I can only work on me. I do exercise. The detaching is a struggle. I have lost 20 poins (was 165lbs now 145lbs). I can't eat and I have tried. This is a stress that has impacted my job, my master's program, etc.
And please don't take the pills. And don't say you "can't eat" because I know you have eaten and still know how, but again you're letting emotion overcome you - though it's understandable given where you are in your sitch.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
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