Hope,

I can tell you are very upset right now. I've been there, I know it stinks. I will encourage to get out and do things. I would encourage to not talk to him a whole lot or plan around him.

There's no one thing that's going to change his mind. Your friend calling him is just adding pressure to him. Don't pressure him, he's already feeling rough.

If you need to not talk to him, take some time to yourself. Put your needs first. Read.

And yes, it's time to implement the LRT. Make sure you read DR for all the forms of pursuit. Do not pursue at all. Go GAL. That's it.


H 34
W 29
BD 3/12/18
Divorce Busted Spring 19

It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.