So when I am told to let her go and leave. Does that mean to just drop the rope and detach and let time and patience prevail. Try to not let her actions and words bother me. Just live my life and support my kids?
It is difficult but I am trying to GAL and do 180s. I am reading the DR book and then I will move onto the DB book. I guess the good thing she is doing the IC and I am doing my own so I can work on myself and she can work on herself. It is just difficult when she says she wants to be separated and be single and independent but live together and such. I am not snooping, begging, pleading, appeasing, etc any more. I will just continue GAL and trying to find hobbies.
Like I said, I enjoy doing home improvement projects. Do you think I can still do my projects to keep my busy. I find the home improvement projects calm me. Making or doing woodworking out in the garage.
