Oh, and the other thing was, when he first dropped the bomb and said I wasn't welcome there, he originally said he would come home at weekends. I was so totally floored by the bomb drop that I said no to that. But then little by little he's come back at weekends, even if only for most of a Saturday. So part of me wonders whether I over-reacted to the bomb drop and whether we could have repaired things better if I hadn't said no to the weekend thing? I've made it very clear to him that I love him, want us to be together and that I would love to have sex with him and repair our marriage.
