Midlife crisis wife

[SteveLW]

Wolfman, click on your name up to the right under Michelle's video, and then select Edit Profile. Signature is part of the profile.

Thanks for the reminder on your sitch again with the above.

Your W is at a tenuous point in life. Women especially are susceptible to the "Decade Life Analysis Phenomenon" (I just made that up.)

I knew girls that flipped out over turning 20! 30, 40, and 50 do not get any easier. I know my wife turning 50 was a big part of our problem last year. So she is 40 now, she probably feels like life is passing her by, she has lost herself, and turning 40 has made her take stock of what she wants in the future.

Most of the times Ws like this will move at break neck speed at first. My W, the first few weeks of our sitch, was gungho. Looking for apartments (she didn't even have an income yet!), searching for jobs. Even started updating her resume. 5 weeks in it all came to a stop.

If you can be patient, DB like a boss, and be consistent, over time she might change. If you had asked me 1-4 weeks after BD what chance I gave my marriage I would have said 0-5%. It always look bleak for weeks and even months. Let he dust settle before throwing in the towel.