paco, this is more for others that may read your thread, since the toothpaste is already out of the tube for your sitch. But the other reason it is a bad idea to tell family and friends about your marital problems is that now that becomes another obstacle to the WAS coming back. If she has to fix things with you that is one thing. If she has to fix things with you plus rebuild relationship and trust with your parents, siblings, cousins, aunts and uncles, and friends, that might be too much for them and they'll view walking away as the easier option.
paco, most LBS do rely on support, and that is great. I am not telling people that have confided in friends and family they've done anything wrong. Every sitch is different. Just to consider it differently. I know in my sitch, if my friends and family found out what my LBS had been doing, she never would have wanted to face them again.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
