Today is our third time for mediation. I think we are suppose to talk about selling the house. I can’t believe that we are even talking about this. I don’t want to sell my house but I also can’t buy her out. I am really struggling with this, because she won’t see we had a great marriage. There was no infidelity, abuse, drugs, alcohol or gambling. Like I said in previous posts she has noticed the changes I have made and yet won’t give our marriage a second chance. There is no question here just very difficult for me to deal with all of this. I wish there was something I could do for her to give us a second chance!!
Wolfman, I would suggest you setting up a signature like many of us has. Showing your age, her age, kids ages, and significant dates (BD, etc). It is very helpful. I know that my advice for LBSs that have kids is very different than for LBSs without kids. Kids complicate things greatly.
I understand what you are feeling. I too was in disbelief, despite understanding my ownership in it, that we were having the discussion that we were. I remember getting off the phone with a divorce attorney and thinking "did I really just have a consultation with a D lawyer?!?" It was surreal.
Hang in there, it will get better. Breathe and stay positive.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
