I was looking through Ws phone a agreed upon but also I am making a point not to do constantly.
Found a response to an email she sent yesterday from an email 2/25. It basically said this wasn't a game and let her know where he was at 1550 days from now. This references when his daughter turns 18 and when he would leave his marriage or make a move or whatever ( I gathered this info from the past that he wasn't leaving his W because of his D)....and that she wasn't a hotel chick.
I asked her about it...no hostility...no anger and why she didn't let me know like she had about the call the night before. She said she was tired of him calling from other numbers which she hasn't been answering but recognizes.
Her email reply did not address any of that, did not ask him to stop contacting or what her intentions where with me.
That is why I saw the issue with her stating NC to him without me present because her reason for NC should be to work on her M? That what they are doing is wrong? Is this just a normal waywards struggle?
H-50 W-48 T-19 M -18 S23, S14 BD - 5/9/2018 OM discovered 5/10/2018
In house sep - 8/18/2018 Rope drop 2/15/2019 R'ing since 3/15/2019