IHCLACS...absolutely...it is painful to fight this battle and not take your own well being into consideration. We fight so hard to change them....but it is really about changing yourself. What do you want? What makes you happy? How do I want my life to go from here on out?

I love my kids and my W to an extent but I will leave her behind if my goals are not being met. Sounds selfish but it is what it is at this point. In the beginning those goals were aligned and somewhere got messed up. These vents have have helped me see the light.

H-50
W-48
T-19
M -18
S23, S14
BD - 5/9/2018
OM discovered 5/10/2018

In house sep - 8/18/2018
Rope drop 2/15/2019
R'ing since 3/15/2019