Hey Don, haven't seen you here but looks like you have been around for a while.
Yes selling the ring was impulsive and I think my final step in dropping the rope completely. Def wasn't for the money but it was reactionary to things that went down last weekend. She got her final ultimatum and was informed of the sale. BTW she filed a false claim on our original wedding ring and got a 16K replacement only to sell the original for 1700 so I was just returning the favor.
All of that has led to where I am now two weeks later, full transparency and what feels like remorse on her part. She knows I will walk away if things continue. She wants to buy me a new ring and I told her if that happens it will be in time and she understands.
Just a strange place right now....and giving it time...thanks though for your thoughts.
H-50 W-48 T-19 M -18 S23, S14 BD - 5/9/2018 OM discovered 5/10/2018
In house sep - 8/18/2018 Rope drop 2/15/2019 R'ing since 3/15/2019