She has her ring on and I don't want one...actually sold it last weekend.
This really jumped out at me as really being impulsive. Why would you sell your wedding ring? That almost had to be an impulsive move. Certainly it was not for the money, was it? So why then? But regardless to the answer to that question, it says to me you need to slow down and take some very deep breaths here. Nothing has to be done today - or tomorrow or next week or even next month. You can take your time with this. Just because W has her ring on and is ready to move forward does not mean you have to jump into that same place. That said, this is what you've been hoping for - correct? Is this not what you wanted when you first came here - to get your W back? Now I didn't go back and look at your first posts but I'm guessing it to be the case.
Again, it's okay to be struggling and not sure. That doesn't mean you have to make a quick decision that turns out to be a poor decision - say perhaps like, oh I don't know, selling your wedding ring? Slow down, perhaps get some professional help. This is one of the biggest decisions you will make in your lifetime (whether to get D or not) There is no need to rush it.
DonH Midwest Me 56 WAW-EXW 55 Met 11/95 / Married 5/00 Bomb 6/20/05 / She Filed on 6/2/06 / Divorced on 10/9/06 4 who'd qualify as GF since D & dated about 25 women since D
