Lost8, I'm starting to really understand the importance of Detachment after passionately pursuing for the last six months since BD of announcement of Separation and space and the ILYBINILWYAM. It starts to put your focus back on you and what you want and allows you to have Clarity a full person really is as well as who you are and what your beliefs and values are stacked against theirs. I'm starting to be at the point where I was before the BD. I realize that you have to leave from your principles beliefs and values and not your feelings. I've been listening to frequencies and attachment music on YouTube every night before I go to sleep. Just in the last week alone it's actually been helping every morning I wake up now more focused and determined on myself than the other person. That's the thing sometimes you get so close to someone to irritability start to overlap one another, and in most cases you have to back off a figure out who they are and who you are as an individual, and whether you to individually are complete and interdependent or codependent
