My wife who is a kind thoughtful generous and considerate soul, was always a typical have your cake and eat it too person in the marriage. She always complained about me not having the time to wrap up my projects as well as myself but she also always wanted to go out and do sociable things with people all the time and break priorities. In other words she has no discipline at least from my point of view. But she thinks she does everything when it comes to division of labor. From my point of view from what I see she dusts and sweeps for 20 minutes on a weekend and that's all she does and she's lucky she cleans the dishes and puts her own and my sons laundry away. Everything is always a mess with her around the house with the kid, and she doesn't even pick up after him. I'm lucky I've had five meals on the dining room table in the last 3 years with all her stuff she piles on it. I'm not one to talk though I have a lot of stuff hanging around the basement in the yard area with all the open-ended the projects of mine. but I've always said this to her about her personality that she always wants to have her cake and eat it too she always wants the best of both worlds without the sacrifice or commitment
