Originally Posted by pinn

Welllll... I am kind of in the same boat. I mean BD was almost 4 years ago (FOUR years ago!). Where does the time go? And I have been technically divorced for well over a year now. I would definitely rather be alone than with the 'wrong' one that is for sure. I just don't want to over look someone who actually might be great. Besides... who am I to be so picky anyway?? ;-)

Anyway.. thanks for stopping by b-fly!


You have EVERY right to be picky. So, you are you to be picky, in answer to your question. Don't settle. It is never a good thing!


Me 52, H53
Bomb drop 9/29/2014
Divorce from XH final 12/17/2014
Marriage #2 12/31/2019
5 adult (step)daughters (3 from XH's first marriage, 2 from current H's previous relationships)
6 grandkids