Just pondering...

When all this started, we (spouses) are scrambling to do ANYTHING to convince them to stay.

Now, years later, some of them (mine included) want to be friends, but some of us (me included) want nothing to do with our MLCer.

I'm wondering how this makes them feel.

Thoughts?

Tad


Currently:
M 56 XW 57
Sons 38,33,31,29

The Sitch:
Married 26 years
EA w/ OM 9/10
Bomb 10/10 (5 weeks after 25th anniversary)
Sep 12/10
She wants D 1/11
W files 5/11
D final 10/11
XW marries OM 6/13