....she then said she has been having chest pain lately and she wasn’t sure if it was heartburn.
H:"I am sorry to hear this. Is there anything I can do?"
or
H:"do you think it is serious?"
or
"Are you concerned?"
Originally Posted by Wolfman
One of her complaints of me from the past is that I didn’t listen to her all the time.
Your wife has a story to tell. Your job is to listen to her story. It is not to agree or disagree or control. It is to understand her story. If you can reflect back her feelings, then do that. H"W, that must have been frustrating."
This is extremely important when she is talking about you. Do not take it personally.
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