OK well a lot of people post things like this early on. They're very concerned that they might say or do some little thing that will ruin their progress. She didn't come to being a WAS overnight, it was months or (more likely) years in the making. And no one thing you do is going to bring her back or send her further away. It's the AGGREGATE of your actions that might make a difference. Consistent, changed behavior over a long period of time.
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I asked if she was ok and if she needed to go to the doctor. She said no, she didn’t want to go. I said fine, I asked if she wanted some tums. She said no. I asked if there was anything I could do to help her? She said not really.
Seems like an overreaction for what she described as heartburn. Try not to act too overly concerned. When my ex BD'd me I did some snooping (before finding DB'ing) and found a message she sent to one of her friends that her worst nightmare was imagining something bad happening to her health-wise and that I would be taking care of her. WORST NIGHTMARE. Those were the words she used. Hard as it is to believe, this is how a WAS views the man she previously was madly in love with. She doesn't want your help. When she says stuff like this just nod and acknowledge. If she wants your help she'll ask for it.
