Pretty well. I wouldn't say anything you did was bad. But concentrate on listening....and validating. My favorite move now is when the TV is on is to either pause it or turn it off, or both, and give my W my full attention. Detachment should not come across mean, or ignoring, or passive-aggressive in anyway.

But yes, as your behavior changes so to will hers. She will have a natural curiosity to what is up and what has changed.


M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018