Something there is that doesn't love a wall...

[peacetoday]

I like the way you have processed your situation
I guess there are no mistakes
and for so many here, we take a horrid situation and turn it into gold-
that's the miracle...we grow..

we change..
we become better,
happier, closer to God or more enlightened (maybe)

Sounds like OD may be depressed and looking at his current lifestyle and choices
makes sense that he would-

You are doing great and congrats to your D for all her accomplishments in performing