The bomb woke me up, but she still won't talk

[lusa]

So I've been back in the house for 6 months now and apart from some initial spewing when I moved back there has not been a cross word or outward showing of disrespect from WW for all that time. Then it reared it's ugly head again this morning, a stupid situation where the light's had fused so it was dark and S14 had made a mess in the kitchen raiding the food cupboards in the middle of the night.

When WW found the mess in the morning, she presumed it was me and disrespectfully started accusing me of it as I was waking up. I immediately called her out on it and when she walked away as I was talking told her that was immature. She made a half sort of sorry later on, but I just told her I won't tolerate any form of disrespect from her, said my goodbyes to the kids and left for work.

An hour later I received a text from her stating "I am sorry I was bad tempered and disrespectful to you this morning"
10 minutes later I replied "Apology accepted. Don't do it again"

Then a few hours later she rang to apologize again, I again accepted her apology and plan to ensure the kids understand that she was out of order and has apologized to me. I feel this is very significant and symbolic of the fact that i finally have my balls back and will no longer tolerate any form of disrespect including any repeat of her secretive EA actions that I haven't called her out on yet.

I'm not sure where the anger came from but I've been out GAL 3 nights out of the last 5 and she doesn't like it, so it could be that. Anyway she'll think twice now before showing me further disrespect.