W and I agreed on all D terms yesterday. Very mature meeting, just the two of us. Filed for D. Signing today with notary then submitting to court. Feeling of light, positive, bright future. I want the D. XW lip trembling, tears multiple times. Said Im a person too in regard to me trying to push this along. Mind you we have been separated since June 2017.
$750 / mo child support after 1 year of $2325. I offered $1000 CS. Said Id pay for K private school and health insurance or at $750 or W pay 25% at $1000. Child support to be renogiated annually based on her income.
Rental property W agreed to paint interior. About to put 5k into house before new renters. She gets up to $7500 of equity if she has financial diress up to 2022. At any point up until 2022 she can waive that $6500 and accept $3000.
50/50 custody. D4 go to public school after K. I had help from lawyer and new woman who is familiar with child custody and beenm to court. OVerall I am good with agreements.
New business opportunites. Travel opportunities. Mentioned new woman meeting STBXW. Potentially ask STBXW if she wants to this weekend. Out of respect for her as D4 mom I would like her to meet New woman. NW going to help me decorate D4 room. She is an extremely supporitve and strong. Almost too good to be true but we are both such positive people we deserve happiness. It seems like its the way it should be.
For those currently going through the struggle. Embrace DB principles. Let go of control. Work on yourself. Let go of relationship. If partner comes back great, amazing. If not, the future is better without them.
Cheers, see you on the other side.
H: 33 W:32 M: 5 T: 8 D: 4 BD: 6/2017 MO: 6/2017 House sold: 6/28/18 W wants to build friendship / relationship- 9/18 Paying $ support since 7/18. Physical Reconnect- 10/18 W Starts- IC / MC - 10/18
