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I think you really need to temper your expectations right now. I think you have a tendency to view things as progress only to be disappointed later. I think your W is perfectly fine with keeping you in the FS until it doesn't work for her anymore.

So, what are my expectations? And what do I do with that information?
I try stuff. I evaluate. As far as W being fine keeping me in the FZ? I tend to agree.

So LH19, what would you suggest if this is the case?

I also know that women are fluid, feeling, creatures and feelings change. There have been times when I felt waiting was the best practice. So I waited.
Other times I feel like blowing the whole thing up. I try to be careful not to do it out of "reaction". But I am very well aware of the risk.
I refuse to be controlled by her inaction. So when faced with "risk it all" or "walk away". I'm fine taking a risk. In my mind, I have nothing to lose.
Thanks for your input.
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Well, keep shaking the tree then RR. Let see if you get some apples.

Keep moving forward my friend, you don“t eat crumbs. Moving with patience, but moving forward.


Neffer, That's exactly what I plan to do. What else could I do?
You're right. I don't eat crumbs.

I don't claim to have figured this out. Not in the least. But I do believe that if more JBS tool a stronger stance in their R that would see movement. As always thanks for your support. grin


M 53 W 54, M since 98
D15, D19
8/2013 discovered EA, W maintained contact with OM
until 10/14
7/2/17 W said she wanted S, 7/25/17 moved out of MBR
12/17 W says moving out 5/18, W still in home.