Sandi,

I have not detailed my first foray with this woman. It's a long one and I'm trying to find time to sit down and type it all out.

I do want to express that I know I was moving too fast with her. To be honest, in my limited experience in dating, that is all I knew. I have been asking, watching videos, reading, on how to slow down. But it may be that me asking for assistance on slowing down is a vague request and I would need to provide more details to get some clarification.

It's a little funny that you mention my lack of sex. It has been 14 months and counting. I have had desperate moments and attempted to find (and fail) hook-ups.

AFAIK as my WW goes. I felt like she was a great opportunity and she was reciprocating as fast as I could communicate. We talked for about three weeks before she asked me to fly up to meet her.

I still feel like this person is interested in me and I think she fell for me hard as well. I don't know where it will go. I just know that wherever it goes I need to do it with care. I have made a promise to myself that my second opportunity with someone will be the last. I want to go in prepared to succeed at that. And I know that I am well on my way.


1/6/18-BD OM1
2/18-W meets OM2
4/18-W intros D4 to OM2
5/18-“Romance ends"
7/18-DB start
7/18-IHS Ends
4/19-WW moves out
3/21-D filed

Formerly pain18

Rise.