From the above something I forgot, another thing I've been working on with my counsellor is expectations. I am a real optimist and every time I get a little crumb I over interpret it and have us driving off into the sunset together. Now, I happen to believe that being an optimist is a GOOD thing, but it really trips me up because then I expect too much.
Any ideas on how to get around this? I don't want to learn from bitter experience!
