Not sure I’m good material for the first and definitely not for the latter. I have never been a hook-up kind of person. Anyway...haven’t decided what I am going to do yet. I am feeling a bit rude that I haven’t gotten back to anyone though.
(((DV6)))
The blessing in all this is that YOU CONTROL your pace in all this. Glad to see that you’re not a hook-up person either; if nothing else that’s encouraging for me wayyyyyy down the road (if it gets that far), that there are at least some women also not totally interested in casual sex / hook-ups.
There’s nothing wrong with making friends—if that is what you truly want, and if you are clear in your intentions not only with yourself, but with others.
I do hope that whatever you pursue, whenever you do it, that you are careful, because you are worthy.
I can see what you are saying about feeling ‘rude’ that you haven’t reached back out to anyone—I get it, but it’s at your own pace.
I did online dating (how I met W), and it’s honestly a numbers game, on both sides—both sides make contact with the expectation that it only results in a few ‘hits’ back—a few messages, which narrow into fewer conversations, which then narrow into fewer relationships, and so on.
And besides, those who truly want you for you will wait. So if they’re really into you, they will message you back and continue with you when you are ready.
