If she is noticing the changes, why is she moving forward with the divorce? Wouldn’t that make her want to try the marriage again? I believe she is going through MLC so I guess I just have to give her time. Is there anything else I should be doing? Is complimenting her ok?
Wolfman, let me tell you what another marriage expert says related to a different way to ask your question. That is "When will my W come back to the marriage?" The answer: When she decides to and not a moment before.
Keep DBing, keep making 180s, keep detaching. Keep GAL, she will take note. She might come around in a week, a month, a year, or never. But pursuit and pressure will not bring her back ever. And no, compliments are pressure and pursuit. There may come a time when they will work, but that time isn't now.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
