Thanks all. My response was just that, reassuring that she can be open and honest with me and with no hostility.

I hope it is a turning point for her....as well as is the boat purchase. This is all her, her money, her loan, she said for us. She wants to start looking forward as we will be close to empty nesters in 3-5 years.

H-50
W-48
T-19
M -18
S23, S14
BD - 5/9/2018
OM discovered 5/10/2018

In house sep - 8/18/2018
Rope drop 2/15/2019
R'ing since 3/15/2019